The Busy Giffs: January 2013

January 31, 2013

Trauma: Night in the ER


To weeks ago, we had a bit of a trauma.

Emmalee fell off the rocking chair/glider in her bed room.
Me, being me, picked her up, put her head on my shoulder and tried to calm her down, saying she was okay.
I lifted her off my shoulder to check her out and there was a nice big splotch of blood on my shoulder where her head was and there was blood streaming down her face from above her eye and into her hair.


So of course, I panicked a bit.
I cleaned up the wound but the fact that it was still bleeding and the size of the swelling made me concerned.
I call the pediatrician and asked if he thought I should bring her in to their office for their emergency or if he thought she would need stitches, which would require us driving to Tobey hopital.

Thankfully it was Sunday night during the beginning of the Patriots game so roads were empty and we were able to get to Tobey quickly, and better yet, be seen quickly.

The doctor hoped to just use glue stitches but after cleaning it out, he decided it was too deep and would need real stitches. They made a papoose out of the hospital blanket and swaddled Emmalee so tightly that she couldn't move or fight back. One nurse held her body down while another held her head still while the doctor stitched her.

I wish I could say I was strong for her but I wasn't.
She screamed. And screamed. And screamed.
I know she wasn't in pain (she had been numbed out) but she was so upset about what was happening and I couldn't do anything to help her.
I rubbed her belly, sang to her, and kept trying to sooth her while tears streamed down my own cheeks.
I have never felt so terrible in my entire life.

She continued screaming throughout the stitches.
She cried for so long that she exhausted herself and fell asleep but still continued crying.

When the doctor was done, she was asleep. 
Whimpering, crying, still asleep.
I scooped up her little papoosed body and just laid there with her.

We were able to leave the hospital after, only being there for about two and a half hours.


Our next stop was Target for some baby Tylenol and a a treat for my little trooper.
Minnie Mouse, ice cream and goldfish crackers.

She's doing fine now but it was such a scary experience!


January 24, 2013

First Snow.. Kind of.


We got some snow to finish out 2012.

Last year, Emmalee was really too small to understand snow and since she was barely crawling, she couldn't do much in it.
But this year, she can run, and fall, and play, and get pushed around in the snow.. and she had a blast!











And she loved it!
Like, "yelled at me and pounded on the front door trying to get back into the snow after I brought her inside so I could get ready for work" loved it!


January 21, 2013

30 BY 30


My 27th birthday is in a month, which has got me thinking...
I'm getting so close to 30!
(Ok, not really, but kind of. Plus Dave turns 30 in a couple months so it's on the brain)
... and since I am so in love with the 30 by 30 lists, I decided to make my own!

In the next 3 years and 1 month I want to:

1. Be an English Teacher (have my own classroom)
2. Have baby #2.
3. Buy a house.
4. Own a pair of Manolos.
5. See a show ON Broadway.
6. Run a 5k.
7. Weigh 150 lbs again.
8. Get my Masters degree.
9. Do a photography challenge for a month.
10. Pay for someone else in the drive through behind me.
11. Get my palm read/fortune told.
12. Go to a blogging conference.
13. Re-learn how to sew and make a blanket from Em's old clothes.
14. Own a car that's less than 5 years old.
15. Go for a weekend trip to Martha's Vineyard.
16. Adopt a family for Christmas.
17. Buy a bicycle. A regular old fashioned bicycle.
18. Go to Vegas for my 30th! (even if it's only for 1 night!)
19. Start (and keep) a vegetable garden.
20. Spend a day at a spa/get pampered for one same day.
21. Learn to crochet or knit.
22. Buy brand new furniture.
23. Have dinner out with my husband at Top of the Hub or go to Blue Man Group (he's never been!)
24. Wear a bikini to the beach... no cover up.
25. Bring Emmalee to see the Rockafeller Christmas Tree.
26. Do a boudoir photo shoot.
27. Go to a group fitness class.
28. Buy an original piece of art and frame it in our house.
29. Go on our first family vacation (must be out of state, can't be CT)
30. Make a list of 100 things that make me happy.

Let's see what I actually accomplish!




January 17, 2013

In 2013.


In 2013 I will...

{BLOG}
- Comment on the blogs I read, rather than just read and X out.
- Reply to ALL the emails I receive through my blog.
-Promote my own blog effectively.
- Get business cards.
-Go to a blogging conference.

{FAMILY}
-Make more time with my family (only use the computer after they're asleep)
-Go on our first vacation.
-  Go on at least 4 dates with David, just us.
- (maybe) add to our family.
- Get caught up on Emmalee's baby book.

{PERSONAL}
-Learn to use makeup
-Add color to my wardrobe
-Be comfortable with my weight
-Continue my Masters degree.
-Get promoted at work.
- Read 25 books.

Not exactly resolutions, more of a to-do list.
Booyah 2013, let's do this.



January 10, 2013

Rent Your Books from CampusBookRentals.com


I have to say I am super excited to get back to school!

After taking the past year and a half off to spend time with Emmalee, I'm going to be starting back at University of Massachusetts at Dartmouth to finish up my Masters!

I'm officially crazy.
I'll be working full time, part time, and going for 6 Masters credits all while running a household with an almost 2 year old!
What was I thinking!?

I went to campus earlier in the week and finished all of my paperwork, did my advising, and filled out the information for my parking pass!
And of course, my favorite part of back to school is the shopping!
I feel like the semester is just better if you have new folders and notebooks so I went right out and grabbed some super cute patterned folders and notebooks to start.

However, the most depressing part of back to school shopping is paying for textbooks, right?
You spend like $400 and when you sell them back, they give you a measly $32 back.
But I have figured out how to save money on my school books!
Want to know the secret?

I rent them!
Yep, just like a DVD rental.
You pay a lower price up front and don't have to worry about selling them back when the semester is over!

This semester I'll be buying my books from CampusBookRentals.com!


With their large selection of books, live customer support, flexible rental periods, and 30 day risk free returns, how could I not?
Plus, on top of saving 40%-90% you get free shipping both ways and you are still allowed to underline or high light the text!

Here's how it works: 


And here's how it works for ME:

I need a book about Behavior Management for one of my classes.
If I buy it from the school's bookstore : $90.50
From Amazon: $78.99
To rent from CampusBookRentals.com : $29.91

Doesn't get much clearer than that!

Where do you buy your school books from? Have you ever rented your books?

Disclaimer: This post was sponsored and I did receive compensation, however all thoughts and content are my own.


January 7, 2013

Sleep Regression



We've always been really lucky with Emmalee.
She's always been a good eater, a good sleeper, etc.
Or, always had been.

The kid doesn't want to sleep lately.
Bedtime takes for.ev.er.
She wants to be held, or her head rubbed, or she'll go down quietly and the start screaming 10 minutes later.
And then it repeats 3 times.

I keep reading that it's normal at 18 months since it's another development stage, but seriously kid...

January 4, 2013

Happy Blog-iversary!


Closed: The winner is @SemirahD.
You have until Tuesday 1/22 at 8 pm to claim!


Happy Blog-iversary to me!


OK, it's tomorrow buuuuuut as of tomorrow I have technically been blogging for 2 years!
Really, it's only been a year of legit writing beyond an online diary, but still!

I can't believe that I've actually stuck with it!
I tried to convince myself to write for just a month and its gone on so much longer!
I love it!

In honor of this milestone,
I've giving away $10 Gift Card to your choice of  Old Navy, Starbucks, or Sephora!!

It's super easy to enter!

Just leave a separate comment for each thing that you do!

1. Follow the blog through Google Friend Connect (Leave your name in the comment!)
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3. Tweet the giveaway! (Please leave the link in the comment!)
"I want to #win a $10 gc from @heathgiff in honor of her 2 year blogiversary! http://hgifford.blogspot.com/2013/01/happy-blog-iversary.html"

I'll close the give away on January 20th and a random winner will be chosen!!!

Thanks and good luck!

January 1, 2013

50 Books in 1 Year


Book #45

the perks of being a wallflower


From Amazon:

the perks of being a wallflower is a story about what it’s like to travel that strange course through the uncharted territory of high school. the world of first dates, family dramas, and new friends. of sex, drugs, and the rocky horror picture show. of those wild and poignant roller-coaster days known as growing up.

I really enjoyed this book, and am really happy that it was sent to me.
I had a very "Catcher in the Rye" feel to it.
Stream of consciousness, awkward, juvenile, but understandable and heart wrenching.

Book #46

The Great Gatsby


From Amazon:
The Great Gatsby, F. Scott Fitzgerald’s third book, stands as the supreme achievement of his career. This exemplary novel of the Jazz Age has been acclaimed by generations of readers. The story of the fabulously wealthy Jay Gatsby and his love for the beautiful Daisy Buchanan, of lavish parties on Long Island at a time when The New York Times noted “gin was the national drink and sex the national obsession,” it is an exquisitely crafted tale of America in the 1920s.
The Great Gatsby is one of the great classics of twentieth-century literature.

This is another classic book that I haven't read since high school but once again, with the movie coming out, I had to read it again!
It's classic for a reason, read it if you haven't!

Book # 47

Home



From Amazon:

When Frank Money joined the army to escape his too-small world, he left behind his cherished and fragile little sister, Cee. After the war, his shattered life has no purpose until he hears that Cee is in danger.

Frank is a modern Odysseus returning to a 1950s America mined with lethal pitfalls for an unwary black man. As he journeys to his native Georgia in search of Cee, it becomes clear that their troubles began well before their wartime separation. Together, they return to their rural hometown of Lotus, where buried secrets are unearthed and where Frank learns at last what it means to be a man, what it takes to heal, and--above all--what it means to come home.

This book was... interesting? and a bit difficult. Although its is short and easy to read, it is hard to understand as the chapters swap between characters' points of view and there is nothing to define who is thinking. You can make assumptions based on the content but if keeping things organized is not your forte... well...

Book #48

The Perfect Christmas


From Amazon:
What would make your Christmas perfect?

For Cassie Beaumont, it's meeting her perfect match. Cassie, at thirty-three, wants a husband and kids, and so far, nothing's worked. Not blind dates, not the internet and certainly not leaving love to chance.

What other options are there? Well…she could hire a professional matchmaker. Simon Dodson has quite a reputation, but he's very choosy about the clients he takes on—and very expensive. Cassie considers him a difficult, acerbic know-it-all, and she's astonished when he accepts her as a client.

Claiming he has her perfect mate in mind, Simon assigns her three tasks to complete before she meets this paragon. Three tasks that are all about Christmas: being a charity bell-ringer, dressing up as Santa's elf at a mall and preparing a traditional turkey dinner for her neighbors (most of whom she happens to dislike). Despite a number of comical mishaps, Cassie does it all—and then she's finally ready to meet her match.

But just like the perfect Christmas gift, he turns out to be a wonderful surprise!

Not much bothers me more than a super predictable book... and this one was no exception. I guessed the ending within the first 20 pages and then just watched it unfold to, ultimately, what I had predicted. This is one of those really stupid, "I'm going to the beach and just need a quick piece of crap I can forget about afterwards" books. If you're into it, read on.

Book #49

Girls' Poker Night

From Amazon:
Dissatisfied both with writing a “Single Girl on the Edge/ Ledge/Verge” lifestyle column and with her boyfriend (who has a name for his car and compulsively collects plastic bread ties), Ruby Capote sends her best columns and a six-pack of beer to the editor of The New York News and lands herself a new job in a new city. 

In New York, Ruby undertakes the venerable tradition of Poker Night—a way (as men have always known) to eat, drink, smoke, analyze, interrupt one another, share stories, and, most of all, raise the stakes. There’s Skorka, model by profession, homewrecker by vocation; Jenn, willing to cross county lines for true love; Danielle, recently divorced, seducer of at least one father/son combo in her quest to make up for perceived “missed opportunities.”

When Ruby falls for her boss, Michael, all bets are off. He’s a challenge. He’s her editor. And he wants her to stop being quippy and clever and become the writer—and the woman—he knows she can be. Adding to Ruby’s uncertainty is his amazing yet ambiguous kiss in the elevator, and the enjoyably torturous impasse of he-loves-me, he-loves-me-not.

What happens when you realize that Mr. Right has his own unresolved past? Where does that leave the future you envisioned? Ruby knows that happy endings aren’t for cowards, and she hasn’t lost hope that there are risks worth taking. As smart as it is laugh-out-loud funny, Girls’ Poker Night is a twenty-first-century His Girl Friday and a re-freshingly upbeat look at friendship, work, and love.

I apparently picked out terrible books to finish up my 50. 
This one was ehhhhh.
It was part stream of conscious, written to be put in a newspaper, part diary and really, really obnoxious.
I found myself pushing through it just to be done with it.
I really have no good things to say about it.

Book #50

Heart of the Matter


From Amazon:
Tessa Russo is the mother of two young children and the wife of a renowned pediatric surgeon.  Despite her own mother's warnings, Tessa has recently given up her career to focus on her family and the pursuit of domestic happiness. From the outside, she seems destined to live a charmed life.
 
Valerie Anderson is an attorney and single mother to six-year-old Charlie--a boy who has never known his father.  After too many disappointments, she has given up on romance--and even to some degree, friendships--believing that it is always safer not to expect too much.
 
Although both women live in the same Boston suburb, the two have relatively little in common aside from a fierce love for their children.  But one night, a tragic accident causes their lives to converge in ways no one could have imagined. 
 
In alternating, pitch-perfect points of view, Emily Giffin creates a moving, luminous story of good people caught in untenable circumstances. Each being tested in ways they never thought possible. Each questioning everything they once believed. And each ultimately discovering what truly matters most.



I will start off by saying that I'm thrilled that she didn't follow her basic formula for books and that this one wasn't expected.
Granted the outcome was ,sadly, predictable, I was impressed that although I had guessed the middle right, I was incorrect about the end, which always makes me happy.
It's another quick read but I actually got emotional while reading it, and hey, that has got to be a good sign, right?

I did it!
50 books in one year!



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